Ngati mukugonana ndi a kugonana chidole zenizeni kwa nthawi yoyamba, mukugonana mwachangu. Mu masekondi kapena miniti imodzi, iye amamukankhira pamphepete.
Sizikhala chimodzimodzi kuchokera kwa munthu kupita kwa munthu. Sizili zofanana nthawi zonse kwa aliyense. Anthu ena ali ndi mphamvu zogonana kwa mphindi 30 molunjika, pamene ena ali ndi mphamvu zogonana kwa mphindi zisanu zokha.
Mmene mumachitira ndicho chinthu chofunika kwambiri. Osati nthawi zonse.
Nthawi yogonana yosangalatsa ndi mphindi 7 mpaka mphindi 15 komanso kukhutitsidwa pogonana ndi mphindi 15.
Mutha kutenga chidolecho kuchipinda chochezera m'galimoto. Munapsompsona tsitsi la zidole ngati mwana mutaika chidole pabedi. Gwirani ziboda zofewa kuzifinya ndikupsopsona ndi kuyamwa mabele a zidole.
Mwaika chidolecho pabedi ndi kumpsompsona chidolecho paliponse.
Muli ndi mbolo. Zinalinso zodabwitsa kwambiri. Zinakhala ngati ndikukokedwa kumaliseche kwake momwe nyini yake imagwirira mbolo. Chidolecho chinandisangalatsa kwambiri, chomwe chinali choposa chimene ndinali nacho m’moyo wanga. Kuthamanga kulikonse kwa umuna, ndidamva kufunika kokankhira mbolo mpaka momwe ndingathere.
Moyo wanu wogonana udzakhala wabwino mukamagonana ndi chidole chachigololo.